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Oakland County Child Custody Lawyers

Custody decides where your children sleep on a school night, who makes the major decisions about their lives, and how holidays and summers are shared. Haque Legal represents Oakland County parents in initial custody cases, divorces with children, ex parte orders, and requests to change an existing order.

We start by reading the current order and learning how your child’s week actually works. Then we build the case around the two questions a Michigan judge must answer: whether the child has an established custodial environment, and what the 12 best-interest factors in MCL 722.23 support.

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Reviewed by Fahd S. Haque, Esq., Founder & Principal Attorney · Updated November 5, 2026

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Since 1993Senior family law attorney licensed in Michigan
Since 2014Principal attorney trying cases in Michigan courts
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Served with an ex parte custody or parenting time order?

An ex parte order is entered without a hearing, but it is enforceable once you are served. To challenge it, you generally must file a written objection or motion within 14 days after service (MCR 3.207(B)). If nothing is filed in time, the ex parte order becomes a temporary order. If the order could change your child's established custodial environment, the court must hold an evidentiary hearing within 21 days of entering it. Follow the order while it is in effect, keep a dated record of every exchange and message, and do not try to fix the problem at the door.

Tell us the date you were served and bring the order and the motion it was based on. If your child is being withheld or an exchange is coming up, say so when you call.

Meet your custody team

Theresa Rizer

Senior Attorney

Theresa Rizer

The firm’s lead family law attorney, licensed in Michigan since 1993. Divorce, custody, parenting time, and support in the Oakland, Wayne, and Macomb County circuit courts.

Hunter McCulloch

Associate Attorney

Hunter McCulloch

J.D., Wayne State University Law School. Custody, child support formula calculations, post-judgment modifications, and contested parenting time.

Fahd Haque

Principal Attorney & Founder

Fahd Haque

Michigan trial lawyer since 2014. Super Lawyers® Rising Stars 2022–2026. Contested custody, divorce, and property division, prepared as though the case will be tried.

What clients say

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Custody

“I was pulled back into court due to a high-conflict situation with my ex, and working with Theresa Rizer made all the difference. She fought hard for me, explained everything clearly, and helped me stay focused. I truly felt like she was in my corner.”
Sara Kuhnie, Google review

Litigation

“Attorney Theresa Rizer demonstrated a high level of professionalism, preparation, and clear legal judgment. Her courtroom advocacy was calm, focused, and effective. I felt confident knowing my case was being handled thoughtfully and with attention to detail.”
Arvind Sharma, Google review

Divorce

“[Hunter] was my lawyer for my divorce. She was absolutely amazing throughout the entire process. Nothing but good things to say about this law firm.”
Angela Paladuk, Google review

Michigan child custody basics

Legal and physical custody

Legal custody is decision-making over major issues such as school, non-emergency medical care, and religion. Physical custody is where the child lives. Joint custody can mean shared decisions, alternating residence, or both (MCL 722.26a). Neither one guarantees a 50/50 schedule.

Established custodial environment

A custodial environment exists when, over an appreciable time, the child naturally looks to a parent for guidance, discipline, the necessities of life, and comfort (MCL 722.27). Changing it requires clear and convincing evidence that the change is in the child’s best interests.

Parenting time

Michigan presumes it is in a child’s best interests to have a strong relationship with both parents, and parenting time is set to promote that relationship (MCL 722.27a). If parents agree on terms, the court orders them unless it finds by clear and convincing evidence they are not in the child’s best interests.

Unmarried parents

When parents sign an acknowledgment of parentage, the mother has initial custody until a court orders otherwise (MCL 722.1006). A father usually needs to file a custody case to get an enforceable custody and parenting time order. Fathers’ rights

Changing an existing order

Before the court will revisit custody, the parent asking for the change must show proper cause or a change of circumstances since the last order. Only then does the court weigh the custodial environment and the best-interest factors. Post-judgment modification

Moving with a child

Once an order governs custody, a parent generally cannot move a child’s legal residence more than 100 miles from where the child lived when the case began without consent or court approval, subject to exceptions (MCL 722.31). Out-of-state moves raise separate jurisdiction questions.

The 12 best-interest factors (MCL 722.23)

The court must consider and make findings on each factor. In summary, they are:

  1. The love, affection, and emotional ties between each parent and the child.
  2. Each parent’s capacity and disposition to give the child love, affection, and guidance, and to continue the child’s education and religious upbringing, if any.
  3. Each parent’s capacity and disposition to provide food, clothing, medical care, and other material needs.
  4. How long the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment, and the value of continuity.
  5. The permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial home.
  6. The moral fitness of each parent.
  7. The mental and physical health of each parent.
  8. The child’s home, school, and community record.
  9. The child’s reasonable preference, if the court finds the child old enough to express one.
  10. Each parent’s willingness and ability to encourage a close relationship between the child and the other parent. Reasonable actions to protect the child or a parent from domestic violence may not be held against that parent.
  11. Domestic violence, whether or not it was directed at or witnessed by the child.
  12. Any other factor the court considers relevant.

Paraphrased from MCL 722.23. Read the statute for the exact wording.

Identify whether the problem is the order, the schedule, or compliance

Parents sometimes use “custody” to describe several different problems: major decisions about a child, the regular overnight schedule, a missed exchange, or a request to move away. Explain what you need to happen differently. The current order and the specific requested change help define the issue the attorney needs to evaluate.

A useful record describes the child’s routine and what has actually happened. Include school transportation, appointments, activities, and the responsibilities each parent regularly handles. Keep complete messages and distinguish an isolated incident from a recurring pattern. Avoid relying on labels about the other parent when dates and examples can explain the concern.

01

Current arrangement

The judgment, later orders, incorporated schedules, and actual weekly routine.

02

Specific concern

What happened, when it happened, how the child was affected, and what the order says.

03

Proposed solution

Exact days, times, transportation responsibilities, and a plan that addresses the identified problem.

Make the schedule work on an ordinary school day

An exchange plan should say who picks up the child, where the exchange happens, and how school or childcare fits the transition. Identify work travel and recurring commitments early. If safety is a concern, raise it at the first contact so communication and exchange arrangements can be planned around it.

Holidays need a separate pass through the order. Compare the school calendar with the holiday provisions and the regular rotation, and note when each holiday period starts and ends. These tools help organize the questions; they do not decide what your order requires.

Holiday guide

How Oakland County holiday and school-break terms usually interact with the regular rotation. Read the guide

Holiday exchange worksheet

Map each holiday’s start, end, and exchange details before the date arrives. Open the worksheet

Overnight calculator

Count annual overnights under a proposed schedule, which also matters for child support. Open the calculator

Build a useful parenting record

How an Oakland County custody case moves

  1. Filing. Custody is raised in a divorce, in a separate custody case between unmarried parents, or by motion in an existing case in the Oakland County Circuit Court, Family Division.
  2. Temporary and ex parte orders. Custody and parenting time can be set while the case is pending. An ex parte order can be challenged by objection or motion within 14 days after service. If nothing is filed, it becomes a temporary order. If it could change the child's established custodial environment, an evidentiary hearing is held within 21 days of entry. Emergency custody orders
  3. Friend of the Court. The court may refer custody and parenting time questions to the Friend of the Court for investigation and a recommendation. The Oakland County Friend of the Court relies on written parenting time guidelines when it resolves disputes.
  4. Referee hearing. Some custody and parenting time matters are heard first by a Friend of the Court referee. A party who disagrees with the recommended order generally has 21 days to file a written objection and ask for a hearing before the judge.
  5. Mediation. The court may refer disputed issues to mediation. Mediation is not appropriate in every case, including some cases involving domestic violence.
  6. Evidentiary hearing. If the case does not settle, the judge hears testimony, decides whether an established custodial environment exists, and makes findings on each best-interest factor.
  7. Order and enforcement. Parenting time denials can be raised through a Friend of the Court complaint, makeup parenting time, or a motion. Later changes require proper cause or a change of circumstances.

For court locations, Friend of the Court contacts, and local procedures, see our Oakland County Family Court guide.

Michigan child custody FAQs

How do Michigan courts decide child custody?

The court decides custody based on the child's best interests, using the 12 factors in MCL 722.23. Before weighing those factors, the court must decide whether the child has an established custodial environment with one or both parents. A change to that environment requires clear and convincing evidence that the change is in the child's best interests.

What is the difference between legal custody, physical custody, and parenting time?

Legal custody is decision-making authority over major issues such as education, non-emergency medical care, and religion. Physical custody concerns where the child lives. Parenting time is the schedule each parent has with the child. Read the actual order rather than relying on labels such as joint or primary custody.

What is an established custodial environment?

A custodial environment is established when, over an appreciable time, the child naturally looks to a parent for guidance, discipline, the necessities of life, and parental comfort (MCL 722.27). A child can have an established custodial environment with one parent or with both. Whether one exists often decides how much evidence the court needs before changing the arrangement.

What are the best-interest factors?

MCL 722.23 lists 12 factors, including the emotional ties between each parent and the child, each parent's capacity to provide guidance and material needs, the stability of the child's environment, the moral fitness and health of each parent, the child's home, school, and community record, the child's reasonable preference, each parent's willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent, domestic violence, and any other relevant factor.

Does Michigan favor mothers in custody cases?

No. The best-interest factors apply to both parents equally. When unmarried parents sign an acknowledgment of parentage, the mother has initial custody until a court orders otherwise (MCL 722.1006), which is why fathers often need to file for an enforceable custody and parenting time order.

Will the judge consider what my child wants?

The court considers the child's reasonable preference if it finds the child old enough to express one (MCL 722.23(i)). Michigan has no fixed age at which the child decides. The preference is one factor among twelve, and judges often hear it in a private interview rather than in open court.

I was served with an ex parte custody or parenting time order. What should I do?

Follow the order while it is in effect. To challenge it, you generally must file a written objection or motion within 14 days after you were served (MCR 3.207(B)). If nothing is filed, the ex parte order becomes a temporary order. If the order could change your child's established custodial environment, the court must hold an evidentiary hearing within 21 days of entering it. Contact us with the date of service and bring the order and the motion it was based on.

Can I change an existing custody order?

Yes, but you first have to show proper cause or a change of circumstances since the last order (MCL 722.27). If that threshold is met, the court applies the established custodial environment analysis and the best-interest factors to the change you are requesting.

Can I move with my child?

Once an order governs custody, a parent generally cannot move a child's legal residence more than 100 miles from where the child lived when the case began without the other parent's consent or court approval, subject to exceptions (MCL 722.31). Moving out of Michigan also requires care. Talk to us before you move.

What if the other parent keeps withholding parenting time?

Keep the order, dates, times, and complete messages. You can file a parenting time complaint with the Friend of the Court, and Michigan requires each circuit to have a makeup parenting time policy for wrongfully denied time (MCL 552.642). Repeated denials may also support a motion to enforce or modify the order.

Is joint custody the same as 50/50 parenting time?

No. Joint legal custody means shared decision-making. Joint physical custody means the child lives alternately with each parent. Neither one guarantees an equal overnight schedule, which depends on the parenting time terms in the order.

Does domestic violence affect custody?

Yes. Domestic violence is a separate best-interest factor, whether or not the child witnessed it (MCL 722.23(k)). The court also may not hold against a parent any reasonable action taken to protect the child or that parent from domestic violence. Safety concerns should be raised at the first consultation so exchanges and communication can be planned around them.

How are holidays and school breaks handled?

Holiday terms usually override the regular rotation for the holiday period. Compare the order with the school calendar early, note when each holiday period starts and ends, and raise ambiguities before the exchange date rather than at the door.

What should I bring to the first consultation?

Bring the current order or filed papers, a short timeline, the child's actual weekly schedule, and complete messages about the disputed issue. Tell us if a hearing or a parenting exchange is coming up soon.

Is the consultation free?

Yes. The initial consultation is free. We explain fees and the retainer for your situation at that meeting, before you decide whether to hire the firm.

Official references: MCL 722.23, best-interest factors · MCL 722.26a, joint custody · MCL 722.27, custody orders and modification · MCL 722.27a, parenting time · MCL 722.31, 100-mile rule · MCL 722.1006, acknowledgment of parentage · MCL 552.642, makeup parenting time · Oakland County Friend of the Court forms

Prepare for your consultation

Bring the current order or filed papers, a brief timeline, the child’s actual weekly schedule, and your most pressing questions. If a court date or parenting exchange is approaching, tell us when you contact the firm. Our consultation preparation guide lists what to gather.

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